Is Yin Yoga Trauma Sensitive? With Nicole Marcia

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Is Yin Yoga Trauma Sensitive?

This is a nuanced and complex conversation. I hope this conversation will give some clarity on what trauma-sensitive Yoga is, and what it’s not.

And the difference between trauma-sensitive Yoga and trauma-informed Yoga is.

This episode will help teachers learn how to make their Yin classes more trauma-informed and have a better understanding of how trauma shows up in Yoga classes.

When I started my Yoga therapy training (and met today’s guest) I initially had a little crisis of faith when I started realizing that according to the Trauma Center definition, Yin Yoga wasn’t trauma-sensitive ūüė≥.

I was feeling torn between my LOVE of Yin Yoga and my new path as a Yoga Therapist. Eventually, I managed to find a way to make my Yin Yoga classes Trauma-Informed and my guest Nicole Marcia was largely responsible for me being able to make that transition.

If you are a Yoga teacher you are teaching people with trauma whether you know it or not. I hope this episode will help you navigate how to make your classes more trauma-informed and If you are looking for more training on this topic I highly recommend workshops and courses with Nicole Marcia.

Nicole Marcia:

Nicole Marcia, MA, MC, C-IAYT (she/her) is an Ashkenazi Jew of mixed European descent. In 2009, she was awarded a master’s degree with a specialization in yoga therapy from Lesley University in Boston, MA. For 9 years, she served as the Director of Therapeutic Yoga Programming for the Provincial Health Services Authority at their Burnaby Centre for Mental Health & Addictions and Riverview Psychiatric Hospital. From 2007-2018, she worked as a yoga therapist at Onsite, the treatment arm of North America’s first safe injection site in Vancouver’s downtown eastside. She also served as the Director of Teacher Training and Mentorship with Yoga Outreach from 2007 Р2023.

In addition to training yoga and healthcare professionals internationally,  Nicole has facilitated therapeutic classes for women fleeing situations of human trafficking and worked extensively with teens living with mental health challenges. She is a member of the Breathe Network which connects survivors of sexual violence with healing arts practitioners and has received her BCPFFA Silver Seal of Endorsement for completing Levels 1 & 2 of the BC Professional Fire Fighters Associations Occupational Awareness for Treating First Responder Trauma.

Nicole recently completed her Masters in Counselling through City University of Seattle and is seeing clients in her private practice where she combines Yoga therapy and talk therapy.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Hi Yenice, and welcome back to a yen yoga, podcast

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Nyk Danu Yoga: we haven’t met before yet. I’m your host, Nick Daniel. I am a

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Nyk Danu Yoga: yoga therapist, yin, yoga teacher, trainer and a Yoga business mentor.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So if you’re new around here, welcome for those of you that are. Return listeners. Welcome back.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I have a guest interview today. so I’ll read their bio in just a moment. But before I do

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Nyk Danu Yoga: just a quick reminder that if you are a Yoga teacher, and you are looking to expand on your Yoga teaching knowledge whether you’ve already taken a training or you haven’t taken a training.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I have a 60 plus hour at the time of this recording, it could get longer in future.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Yin, Yoga teacher training. It’s therapeutic.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: It’s nervous system based with a big focus on accessibility, and it’s steeped in traditional Chinese medicine.

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So if you want more information about that, you can just check the show notes

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Nyk Danu Yoga: on any of the places that you’re watching or listening to this, there’ll be a link to get on the wait list or my training. So if you want to get on the wait list. You just go all the way down. Click the link, and it’s either at the top of the page or the bottom of the page, you’ll see a place where you can enter your name and email.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And I also have public zoom classes. I have at the time of this recording a couple of Yenyoga classes a week on zoom. Those run in registered semesters, seasonal themed semesters, and so if you’d like to join me for those, there’s also a link for that

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Nyk Danu Yoga: in the episode or show notes. And then the last thing I’ll mention is that I have an On demand video library for those of you that are yin enthusiasts. It’s not exclusively yin, but there’s a lot of yin in there.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: How that works. Is it? Sort of like Netflix? It’s you sign up. Pay every month. You can log in and pay and play sort of thing. You can practice with whatever practices strike your fancy.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Lots of yin. There are also some other therapeutic classes. But definitely, it’s it’s yin dominant. And it’s a combination of some professional quality videos that I’ve done. And also former zoom classes, including every workshop that I do, ends up in that video library, and that will also have a link in the show notes. So if you’re interested in working with me more.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: those are some opportunities to do so. So

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Nyk Danu Yoga: let’s get into today’s guest.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So today I’m interviewing Nicole, Marcia and Nicole and I met when she was, and I believe she still is, teaching the trauma module at the Yoga Therapy College that I took my yoga therapy training through.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and I was always just impressed with Nicole as a person, but also the wealth of information that I learned in what was quite a small training. Actually it was only a 20 h module, but it completely changed the way that I teach.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I think for the better. So we’ll get into more about the subject of trauma. Yoga trauma. Sensitive, yoga trauma informed yoga, etc., etc. Once Nicole gets here.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: But before that I’ll just read her introduction here.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Okay, Nicole, Marcia MA. Mc. And certified International Association of Yoga Therapist Yoga therapist.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: She, her is an Ashkenazi Jew of mixed European descent in 2,009. She was awarded a Master’s degree with a specialization in Yoga therapy from Lesley University in Boston, Massachusetts.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: For 9 years she served as the Director of Therapeutic Yoga Programming for the Provincial Health Services Authority at their Burnaby Center for Mental health and Addiction

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and Riverview Psychiatric Hospital from 2,007 to 2,018. She worked as a Yoga therapist at Onsite. the treatment arm of North America’s first safe injection site on Vancouver.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Vancouver’s downtown East Side.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: She’s also served as the director of teacher training and mentorship, with Yoga outreach

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Nyk Danu Yoga: from 2,007 to 2023.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: In addition to training Yoga and healthcare professionals. Internationally, Nicole has facilitated therapeutic Yoga classes for women, fleeing situations of human trafficking

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and work extensively with teens living with mental health challenges.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: She’s a member of the breed network which connects survivors of sexual violence with healing arts practitioners.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and has received her BCPF. A. Silver seal of endorsement for completing level one and 2 of the BC. Professional Firefighters Association. Occupational awareness

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Nyk Danu Yoga: for treating first responders in trauma.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Nicole recently completed her master’s in counseling through City University

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Nyk Danu Yoga: of Seattle, and has seen clients in her private practice where she combines Yoga therapy and talk therapy.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So I want to just mention, there will definitely be some content warnings for today’s episode.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: As always, this is an adult podcast with adult subject matter and adult language. So if you have small people around

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Nyk Danu Yoga: headphones.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Also, if you’re currently experiencing or working with your way through things like addiction.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: mental health. trauma. sexual abuse, sexual assault. you can guess by Nicole’s bio that these things are probably going to come up when she starts discussing her work and her journey, so just content warning there for those of you who need to maybe skip this one.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Okay, in a moment we’ll be joined by Nicole

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Nyk Danu Yoga: kind of Cool Welcome to a Yan Yoga. Podcast

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Hi, Nick, it’s so good to be here. Thank you for asking me to come in. Oh, of course, as soon as I knew that, I wanted to do an episode

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Nyk Danu Yoga: on this subject right away. It was like, it’s gotta be in a call that I talked to really honored

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Nyk Danu Yoga: before we dive into the subject matter. Maybe just very briefly introduce kind of yourself, and who you work with and what you’re up to in the world at the moment.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): So my name is Nicole, and my pronouns are she and hers, and I work in Vancouver the unseeded territories of the musquium squamish and slay with tooth first nations, people

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and the work that I do these days is primarily a private practice. So I work as a clinical counselor and a yoga therapist.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I also I do that under my own business, which is called find balance counseling and Yoga therapy. I’m also an educator. So I work in a few different Yoga therapy schools in the lower mainland.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I teach courses like yoga therapy for trauma.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I teach about the therapeutic relationship I teach in a course called Yoga Psychology in the Mind and I’m also an instructor in Simon Fraser University’s continuing studies, first responder Trauma Prevention.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Program. So I teach an addictions. Course. There.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): So that’s most of the work that I’m doing these days.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: It’s a bit of a shift from, I think when when I first met you. Seems like it’s more

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I don’t know if you were still working in treatment centers and things when I when we first connected, or if that was already starting to filter out. But

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): yeah, that was a big part of the work that I did was working in treatment centers and psychiatric facilities

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): did a fair amount of work also with first responders, like in a ten-week trauma day treatment program. spent a few years also, you know, working at Onsite, which is the Re. Well, about 10 years working at Onsite, which is the rehab arm of the safe injection site in the downtown East Side, and I also did a fair amount of work with an organization called Deborah’s Gate. Supporting

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): women who are fleeing situations of human trafficking.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): But a lot of that is,

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): previous work. And I’ve transitioned a lot more to focusing on private practice.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Nice.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Let’s start I guess at the beginning of not the very beginning, like I was born in, but like how you found yoga

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and then I guess kind of we’ll move into how you started teaching. And then where in there did yoga therapy come in and all the trauma training and all of that. So let’s let’s start

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Nyk Danu Yoga: maybe with, like, how did you? How did you even start practising? Yoga? I always think these stories are so interesting.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Yeah, I was

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): they can be really interesting. It’s true. I well, you know, just to start from the very beginning, when I was in my early twenties, I survived a really violent sexual assault.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And in the aftermath of that assault became a really heavy drinker and a pretty heavy drug user and smoking a lot of cigarettes and doing that kind of thing.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, it was several years after that I was sitting on the couch and smoking a cigarette and watching Oprah, Winfrey and Madonna was on Oprah, Winfrey

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and I

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): thought, Wow, you know, Madonna looks great. I wonder what she’s doing? And she started talking about practicing something called Ashtanga Yoga, which you know I didn’t know anything about.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): But I,

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, did a little research. And I ended up finding a community of people who were practicing that particular style of Yoga

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): at the old hyperbaric unit at Vancouver General Hospital, which is

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Condos. Now it’s not around. But there was this group of people, you know, practicing regularly very early in the morning. And I thought, Hey, you know I can do, Yoga, and it’ll be really easy, and somehow it’ll make me look like Madonna.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And hopefully I won’t have to quit smoking. So obviously some of those things did not come to fruition.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): But I ended up starting to attend these classes, and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): after several years of a pretty regular practice, started to notice some interesting shifts.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I started to notice that. You know I was more comfortable in my body, more comfortable in social situations, and as a result, I just was drinking less and and using less. It’s like my anxiety level had really decreased a great deal.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I started to notice that.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): this experience that I had had previously of really intense kind of mood. Swings started to settle, and as a result I was using less nicotine again, and it wasn’t really what I had started out seeking. You know I wasn’t that concerned at that particular point about what I was doing in my life in terms of substances, but I noticed that these things were shifting, and I was really clear that the yoga had something to do with that

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and then in 2,007, I completed my very first teacher training.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): It was 150 h. It was before you know, all of this other sort of reg regulation came into place

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and in 2,000. So III really was enjoying this.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): the teaching, and I became very interested in the intersection between Yoga Asana and social justice.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): who gets access? Who doesn’t? What does it mean to.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, feel safer and empowered in our bodies and in the world. And ultimately I started to become interested in Yoga therapy. What did that look like, you know? What did it mean? And

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): there were a couple of trainings at that time available.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and I so was sort of like looking at these and thinking, these are very, very expensive, as they still are, and I wonder if I could get academic credit for them

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): or for a yoga therapy training. And so I did a search, and I ended up finding a a woman who had done a Master’s degree in Yoga therapy studies. I contacted her

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): doing the same program that she had done so I did. Completed a Master’s degree in Yoga therapy studies through Leslie University in a program that’s no longer running. It was called the Independent Study Master’s program. So I completed that in 2,010,

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and immediately upon completing that degree I was offered a full time job as a Yoga therapist that

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): ultimately had me splitting my time between a place called Riverview Psychiatric Hospital. Here in Port Coquitlam and the Burnaby Center for mental health and addictions.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And the client population was the same. They were all folks who had been labeled as having concurrent disorders.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): which in this context means that they were living, both with a mental health diagnosis, usually more than one and they were also poly substance users. So these were folks who had experienced a lot of trauma and a lot of marginalization and we’re also incredibly

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): resilient. I also didn’t have any training

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): to work with this population of people like. They weren’t talking about working in concurrent disorders when I was doing my Yoga therapy training.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): so I often say I was kind of faking it, you know, for that first year.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And then I got called into my boss’s office, you know, about a year into working there, and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): was understandably a little nervous as someone who felt like they were kind of faking it at work. And she said, Have you ever heard of something called trauma sensitive? Yoga?

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And I. I lied, and I said, yes.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and she said, is that something that you’re doing with our clients? And I lied again, and I said, yes, it is. And she said, good, because I think it’s gonna become.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, an important sort of therapeutic approach. And at that time, you know, she was the manager of the Burnaby Center.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): They were pretty progressive there. This place is now called Redfish. They’ve they’ve changed their name, but

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): They were pretty progressive. They had a lot of different kinds of programs. So you know, they were interested in bringing in

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): sort of cutting edge therapies. And at that time, you know, Yoga therapy was was considered that. So you know, I went back to my office and I went online and I did a search. And I found something called Trauma Center trauma sensitive. Yoga

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and I had the privilege to be able to attend an initial 40 h training.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Let’s pause for a moment, because I do want to dive deeper into that. But I have a couple of questions great. So

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Nyk Danu Yoga: you started with

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Nyk Danu Yoga: a form of Yoga, that is very physical.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and is also sort of known for being a bit

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Nyk Danu Yoga: hands-on.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Yeah. So I’m wondering if and did you stick with that style up until your first teacher training? And was your first teacher training

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Nyk Danu Yoga: an a. NA stronger based training? Or was it a half a training, and and also, as a you know, as a survivor yourself. Did you? Did you find that intense, like all the

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): mucking about with the hands and stuff all the mucking about. I like that. That’s perfect. We don’t call it adjustments anymore. It’s mucking about. It’s my official term. Now, I like that.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): My training was in Ashtanga.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): taught

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): a variation of Ashtanga as a studio teacher for many years, you know power, Yoga, but I never taught the

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, primary series in full, or you know.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and yeah, there were a lot of adjustments, very intimate adjustments.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Consent was not

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): something that was coming up at that time at least, not in my

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): mind.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And you know I

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): did that with a lot of my students at the time, I mean not at the Burnaby center, not by the time I had gotten there, but certainly, you know, in the time between when I was teaching at studios, I definitely administered a lot of

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): pretty, intense, very intimate hands on assist without seeking consent, and got into some

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): sticky situations with that for sure, which, looking back on, you know, I understand more fully. But at the time I

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): hindsight is always yeah. Yeah. I didn’t know exactly what was happening, and it just wasn’t a conversation, you know, and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): between 2,007 to like 2,010. That I was a part of it may have been happening, but II wasn’t privy to it.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And there was intensity

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): in that practice for me.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): but I really appreciated it. Like for me.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): it wasn’t a triggering experience or a triggering practice. For me it was very liberating and ultimately very different than what I ended up doing

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Nyk Danu Yoga: When I took my first teacher training which was in O. 3, we finished in O. 4. It wasn’t an Iongar certification program, because we all know that takes like a century. It was. But all of the teachers other than one on faculty. Were Iungar certified teachers. So it was essentially an Iangar training. And I remember my, and I’ve I’ve heard other people talk about

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and we would do that twice. And then, if the person who was who we were kind of trying to speak to wasn’t picking up on what we were putting down. Then we might use their name. and then, if they still didn’t understand kind of what it was that we were saying, then we would go over and touch.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: put a block on their body and say, Can you feel the block here? So there was a bit of that in our training? Also, with one of the male faculty members. He talked a lot about how anytime he’s doing an adjustment on a female, if at all possible. He’s usually got a prop between

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I felt like after I took your training, which at the time at the Yoga Therapy College, shout out Ajna, that I took your training at allowed us to take the training and then do some of our mentorship by sort of helping for the next one. So I did. I took your 20 h, and then, of course, all of the other ones, the the intent psychological, intensive. And then the therapeutic relationship, which is brilliant.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And then II mentored with you so that I could get the info like, I just like, Okay, who do? I want to mentor with and like this, information has

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Nyk Danu Yoga: a little bit of an internal crisis. Actually, because, although because of my studies with Paul Grilli, I was already had moved away from this sort of right way to do a pose or air quotes or alignment thing. So I was already not directing people with these. I mean, of course, you have to give some words, but leaving open space for just like.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: through studying with you is that a lot of what? And we can maybe get into this as you start to shift into your studies at the center a lot of what is considered trauma sensitive, yoga, and that if mistake, if I’m not mistaken, that’s tm, essentially, isn’t it?

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Nyk Danu Yoga: so I never say I’m trauma sensitive. I say I’m trauma informed, because I’m like. I haven’t studied with them, you know, just through my yoga therapy, but I thought that there was more of a you know. Don’t use that unless you’ve trained their thing.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Okay, well, this one’s teaching power. Yoga, but this one’s teaching power, Yoga, but like they look nothing alike. And so it can be very confusing, you know. So II appreciate. That’s why I went with trauma informed also, because

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Nyk Danu Yoga: That was funny when you said that you are a slow learner for me. I just feel like I’m the type of person that needs to. I think it’s an introvert thing. Bring in the information, and then I need to sit with it for a while. I need to meditate on it, to think on it. I need to practice it.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): gotcha. It brings in other aspects like. And when I’m you know, and there are other people that are, you know, bringing forward really beautiful expressions of trauma, informed yoga but when I’m talking about what I offer, you know, it’s it’s really rooted in that training, but also brings in what I learned in yoga therapy what I’ve learned working in

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): could start to do. And then yes, definitely defining what that means. For sure, that’d be great. Thank you. So language is one that tends to stick out for people and tends to be one of those. Oh, crap moments! So really in trauma, informed Yoga. You know we’re looking at this idea of moving from a place of being directive to a place of being invitational. And

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): in terms in particular, what they do with their body becomes really important. Right? So invitational language can be things like as you’re ready in your own time if it feels right for you.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And often when I’m training people, there’s this kind of like wide-eyed like, Whoa, did I hurt anybody? And it’s you know, by telling them what to do with their bodies and telling them, you know where you know how it should feel. And II always remind folks like, you know, our our students are not

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Nyk Danu Yoga: it was interesting, because part of our training was practice teaching, and you were so kind to say, ask us first of all, if we wanted feedback, and we had the right to say no, and then ask if we wanted it

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and so then. But then, so I was adding like invitations on top of my invitations on. And it was just getting wordy. It were just like you’re ready in your own time and

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Nyk Danu Yoga: One thing that I and I don’t know. I don’t think that I got this from your training, but I but I guess it was an adaptation in my own teaching was

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Nyk Danu Yoga: often. Now I’ll say I tend to feel this here, but you might have a completely different experience.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: just because I find that in especially in studio culture, people will be like, Am I doing this right? Where should I feel this right? And so I’ll just say I feel this here in my body, but just know that you might feel it somewhere else or not feel it at all, and it’s all good, you know. And then yes, that that interception

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Anyone who’s listening to the pod knows that I’m I’m always banging the therapeutic drum here that we have to be moderate with sensations. We can’t be putting people into their full expression of some pose that they can do in saying.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): or you might raise your arms up overhead. Your choice right? Very different than you know. You could extend your arms out or like up, or maybe on your side, or maybe anywhere, right? They’re very different

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And sometimes there’s that looking around the room because you’ve been so nebulous they don’t really understand what it is that they’re doing. And so they’re looking at their neighbor like, what? Huh? What am I doing? You know? Yeah. And that’s not what we’re doing. We’re we’re actually really holding a container. We’re holding a space.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I have to do it this way, and so I might, even as a student, come up with a third option that you didn’t mention. But I might. I would feel more comfortable to do so because you gave us some options instead of a rigid like. This is how this should look.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): one of the very simple things that I took away from your training that had never occurred to me before

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Nyk Danu Yoga: please, dear teacher, don’t start making a checklist and start doing all of the things that really stood out to me. This is why you should take a training with Nicole, which will be linked below. So that when you are sitting and hearing this information, you can be like, oh, what’s now standing out about the way that

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): mouth. – And the pieces that you’re talking about in terms of like letting students know where you are in the room. what you’re doing, why, you’re doing it, that’s all. Part of creating a predictable container right sort of goes back to the culture of class, the container of the class. I always know where Nicole’s gonna be in the room.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): because she tells me I always know that when Nicole locks the door she’s gonna tell me, and she’s gonna let me know how to leave if I need to do that

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): So there’s sort of like the predictability and the culture of the class and the environment. And then there’s also this very, very important piece around the relationship between the the teacher or the therapist and the student

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): In the ways that you listed. And and also, you know, in terms of the way that we show up

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And for people who have a little trouble wrapping their heads around professional boundaries. We can say, Hey, it’s for your students. It’s for your clients, because, like, if you go out for brunch with them. And something goes sideways in the personal relationship.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): That kind of ruins the Yoga relationship for them, too. And then they lose access. Yeah. to yeah, that aspect of the relationship, or or vice versa. So you can actually keep the therapeutic relationship intact

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and still have an incredible relationship with your students that’s got so much depth, and you can express your care for them, and they can express it back.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and it can be an incredibly safe place for them to land. But if it starts to go into the personal things can become a lot more complex.

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And II just can. I can just hear Yoga teachers thoughts in my brain right now

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): saying things like, I often have these little little thoughts that I hear like

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Nyk Danu Yoga: What do you mean power balance like I don’t. I don’t have power. There’s no power balance.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Do you want to speak to that? Well, I think that there are a lot of sort of intersections.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): in which power imbalances get reinforced. I mean, we can start out with

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Nyk Danu Yoga: this idea that just built into a teacher, student relationship is a power and balance right? The teacher is kind of in charge. Whether we like it or not, and that reason I keep saying whether we like it or not is because I can hear teachers saying.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: but no, we’re all one. I don’t want to be. you know, like resist they. They don’t want that position. And yet

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Nyk Danu Yoga: it is there because you are leading the group, you are guiding the group.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): That’s right. And and you’re getting paid to do that.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Often like depending on where you’re teaching. You know a lot more about your students than they know about you. For example, if I’m working in a organization that serves women who are fleeing.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Intimate partner, violence.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I know something about that group of women right? Like I’m in a position of power. I know something about them that they don’t know about me.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Generally speaking.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And then then there are other ways, you know, in which there can be power imbalances. So there’s like, there’s what you said about, hey? We’re holding the space and guiding people with what to do

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): with their bodies. There’s this idea of you know us knowing more. And then there are issues of privilege like.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: you know, what’s the color of the skin of the teacher. You know how able bodied, or you know, are they? Gender language? Do they speak? You know what’s their gender identity? All of these pieces? You know. How much did it cost for them to get the training that they got?

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And who’s in the room, you know, or

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): who’s not in the room is sometimes a good question to ask, too, so there are a lot of different pieces where privilege and marginalization and and power can sort of intersect in the context of a Yoga class or an individual session. And we have to

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): attend to these pieces.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Yeah. even something as simple as after classes. I used to say, if you have any questions. I’m here for a few minutes after class. And then I realized that I needed to get more specific, because I was getting all kinds of questions that I was not qualified to answer

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Nyk Danu Yoga: like they’d come up and move. My knee is hurting. And my this, and I’m like, physio, like, you know. And so I started getting very clear. If you have any questions about our practice time together.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I’m here, you know, if you had a question about this pose, or you wanted to know

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Nyk Danu Yoga: the reading I shared like any of that, you know. Please feel free. Just feel free to just come and say Hello, like all that’s welcome. But I had to start getting really specific because I was getting

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Nyk Danu Yoga: nutrition questions, questions about injuries like, you know, questions that really like they should be seeing a physio therapist or therapist for and I do it in a very nick way where I actually crack that joke at the end that like, just to be very clear, this is what I’m qualified to answer. I’m not a physiotherapist, not a therapist, you know, if you need a good one I can recommend. But like that’s not me, you know.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So we’ve talked about invitational language

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and understanding kind of moving around the room and power dynamics.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And is there anything else? If you were to pick like one more

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): kind of yeah.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): The language of in invitation and the language of inquiry. We’ve spoken about predictability, safety, importance of relationship.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): boundaries

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): a.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And I think you know what you’re talking about all in power and and and what you’re talking about. Also, you know this idea of scope of practice. So be really clear about who you are and who you’re not what you know and what you don’t know.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): That’s a really important part of creating an authentic kind of relationship, one in which, yielding

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): from trauma can occur.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): II think you know the other piece that I just want to add on to the power thing is like. Often, you know, our students are coming to us in vulnerable places.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): This is another thing that reinforces power. Like I came to Yoga in a vulnerable place.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I was struggling. Umhm. I didn’t necessarily show up because I thought Yoga was gonna meet that struggle, but that was very present for me. Had I had teachers who were predatory

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): or who we’re somehow enforcing a culture of

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): spiritual bypassing.

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I could have gotten into a lot of trouble.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And that’s another reason why, I think it’s important for Yoga teachers and Yoga therapists to understand that there’s a power differential there. Our students are coming to us with something going on usually.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and that puts them into a vulnerable spot.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): so

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, in terms of other pieces to consider

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): sort of nuggets. I guess one of the pieces is like kind of the intention of a trauma, informed Yoga class. Right?

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): So often, I think of the intention behind a trauma informed Yoga class being quite different than what we might find in a studio setting. So I’m thinking about ideas like, how do we

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): have an experience of having a body? How do we cultivate more safety in our bodies? How do we understand that we have choices with what to do with our bodies?

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): How do we step into in a safer way as possible, a practice of noticing what’s happening in our bodies.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And how do we learn about how to use our bodies as a resource for self

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and co-regulation.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Umhm. So again, some of those ideas are, what has a trauma informed Yoga class maybe be different than some of the aims of like.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I don’t know. Goat yoga, and a glass of wine, or whatever you’re doing.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I’m wondering if you can, because the other little voice that I’m hearing right now from yoga teachers in the Yoga verse is.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Oh, yeah, but I don’t. I don’t teach

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Nyk Danu Yoga: like I don’t teach populations with trauma, which always cracks me up because I’m like, oh, yes, you do, dear friend, because you teach humans and of course there are. There’s different kinds of trauma.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I don’t. I mean, we don’t need to break all of those down. But I you know

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Nyk Danu Yoga: for years. What if you would have asked me if I was teaching. Students with trauma would have said no until I had a better understanding from the training, and there there then became things that I had witnessed in class over the years before my training that I could then look back on and go. Oh, that’s what that was.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I thought they just weren’t listening to me. You know I didn’t realize they were actually dissociating, you know.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: or I didn’t realize that when I kept saying, close your eyes to that student that like

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Nyk Danu Yoga: that didn’t feel safe, maybe, for that student to close their eyes, you know. So there was so many little

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Nyk Danu Yoga: inklings. And, believe me, teachers. When you take a good trauma training, which you know I’m going to shout Nicole out again.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And Links’ll be in the bio when you take one.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: There’s all these little Aha’s where you’re like. Oh, and then and then, after that some situations of different things that popped up like just things like something as simple as someone laying on their back, and

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Nyk Danu Yoga: kind of quickly sitting up and hugging their knees, you know.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Never in a million years. Would that have? Would I have had a little? Oh, okay, that could be before.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And then I had one example that was quite intense, that, thank god goddess Universe. Whatever that I had taken your training because

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I would have been.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I would have been not able to hold the brave space

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Nyk Danu Yoga: in that situation. Had I not known, or or at least thought that this might be what’s happening. I’ll give a very brief synapses of it. There was. It was a yin class, I all, and it was at an Ashtraga studio. So there are. I’m always I was the end to their young for a while.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and I always ask people at the beginning of class when they’re just lying down and constructive rest to put one hand on their belly if they’re new to the practice again, because it is quite different. And so if I see hands, I’m gonna talk a bit more at the beginning before we move into slowly more quiet time about like, what is this practice? How is it different than moving? So that I think that people have a bit of a framework that way.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and so nobody had, and so I repeated it, cause that’s unusual. So if you’ve never done any, and put one hand on your belly. So I was like, Okay, so I did do a brief review of a little bit of how yens different. And at the beginning there was one student who

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Nyk Danu Yoga: was just kind of what you might think of as having trouble with the stillness, because they’re in a donkey, you know, like that. At the beginning. It was like, Okay, I get it used to flowing. So you know, in swan pose or pigeon kind of circling his arm up and then bringing it down, but very kind of soft. And just. I was like, Okay.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: like movement happens in stillness. All good. Then at the beginning, what I thought was Ujayi breath started happening. And so I had to kind of just cue that like.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I know, this is something that you know, people consistently focus on in this practice. But in again practice you can just feel free to just breathe. We’re not trying to, you know, cause it has different energetic effects. And you know. Just let yourself breathe. However, you feel right in this moment. It’s not something that you have to do.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and it just kept getting stronger.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So I kind of repeated that and stronger. And then I started realizing this is not Uji like I was started. It was feeling hyperventilating, ish. And I was like, okay? And then the gentle movements became things like in between poses lifting their hand and then smashing on the floor and choosing a half handstand instead of a stillness in the rest. And I was. It was getting to the point where

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Nyk Danu Yoga: one male student, myself, email.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: other female students. And I was starting to go.

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This is getting a bit aggressive.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And you know, as the scrappy one that I am, I was like, am I gonna have to put my body between this person and like it, that that alarm bell started going off

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And one student at 1 point did look up with the kind of breathing and looked at me like. And I was like. you know, public yoga class breathing and farts happen like we’re gonna we’re gonna deal with this, you know. But then, when the kind of smacking of the floor happened, she went to to pack up and get up, and I just did go over to her and say, you know.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I’m probably gonna address this in a couple of moments if you’re okay to stay. And she said, No, no, I feel fine. I just can’t concentrate. So I’m gonna go. So she was okay. So she she wasn’t feeling

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Nyk Danu Yoga: triggered. It was just like annoyed. I can’t relax kind of thing with all this noise going on. So II said, Okay.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and

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Nyk Danu Yoga: had I not had your training, I don’t think I would have had the ability to hold a brave enough space to look at this individual, and I just thought

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I don’t know what it was, but there was something in me that said, Just wait. just wait.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So I waited for about 2 more minutes, and all of a sudden

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Nyk Danu Yoga: all of that stopped. and he was very still

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and very peaceful, and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): in Shavasan.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And of course, as a as a teacher, had I not had that basis of kind of I don’t like the word

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Nyk Danu Yoga: detached because it feels cold, but like being unattached.

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I probably would have been trying to get all up in it and like fix the situation, and like, you know.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: and instead, I was able to just step back and and be curious and watch, and at the same time be aware that, like I may have to do something.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And after the class, when everybody had left he, he was kind of intentionally the last one to leave. And so I just which is what I recommend like. Don’t don’t dive into this stuff. It’s not your job, but just said, How are you feeling or how you doing, you know, very casually.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And he said, I feel amazing, he said. I think I had a pretty big trauma release in that class, he said.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: so, thank you. And I said, Yeah, I noticed that somethin was going on there, and he said, ugh! I get the clamp just thinking about it.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Yeah, I watched my buddy get killed a couple days ago. and I was like. Well, no wonder. you know. And so then I did what I should do, which I know from trainings. I said.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Do you have support with that? Do you have? Do you have a counselor that you can see. Do you have a friend? That you can, you know, is there is there somewhere that I can recommend? And he said, No, no, I’ve got a counsellor. I’m good. I’ve got an appointment. I’m going to go see a buddy right now, and like I’m good. But I just felt like I really needed that. And I was like.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Wow, so

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Nyk Danu Yoga: nothing prepares you for that. So when, dear teacher, the reason I share this story is because you might think you don’t teach dramatized people. But guess what? They’re everywhere.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): We all have trauma.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Yeah, yeah, thank you for sharing that story. and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): but yeah, I mean, usually, what I say to people in trainings is like, you might decide not to put yourself out there as someone who specifically works with this population. Yeah.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and that’s cool.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): But you can make your classes

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): safer braver spaces for your students by bringing in some of these pieces. If they resonate for you

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): and some people do that, and and some people don’t. But

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I don’t. Again. I don’t think that you need to be committed to just working with people who identify themselves as trauma survivors, or people who are currently experiencing trauma in order to create trauma-informed Yoga spaces.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Well said, and I could not agree more. and I would say that. allowing myself the time to. because I wasn’t planning on working in specific populations, as you mentioned, but I was also very aware that, like

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Nyk Danu Yoga: humanity, is traumatized and having the time and the space to slowly introduce these things in ways that made sense for me so that they became just automatic. Because that takes time.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Invitational language is not something you’re gonna hear and wake up the next day. And all of a sudden you’re fluent in it like this takes conscious

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slowing down and choosing and being like you said, mindful

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Nyk Danu Yoga: noticing when you

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Nyk Danu Yoga: didn’t do it and go up. Hmm, there, we did that. Okay, and having that time to do that, allowed me. Then, when an opportunity literally fell in my lap.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: so I do. One private class for island mental health. And these are, it’s outpatient. They all have coaches, and like, there’s a lot of programs through this organization showed up to grow

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Nyk Danu Yoga: where they have. You know, they get chigong and art classes and cookie classes, and so I’m but one of the many Smorgasborg of awesomeness that the participants get to move through in their time in this program. And

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Nyk Danu Yoga: you know, initially, I actually said no

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Nyk Danu Yoga: to this class. And then, 6 months later it fell in my lap again. and I think the reason was because.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: as you mentioned, I was like, I’m not looking necessarily to work with

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Nyk Danu Yoga: a population where this is going to be my focal point.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: But what became clear after discussing it with them a bit more was that first of all. They’re they’re outpatient, you know. They’ve all got coaches. They’ve got therapists they’re working with. This is. There’s a grow coach at the class like with me. So that cleared up a lot of it. And then, also knowing that

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Nyk Danu Yoga: it basically. all I’m all I’m doing is is it’s very similar to all the other classes I’m doing. The only difference is, I don’t own. At the end we do a shared breath.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I include Yoga Nidra, which I was

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Nyk Danu Yoga: a little leery about, but I did a body scan just once, because I happened to just finish early and unanimously. The participants loved it so much that they were like, can we do that thing again, can we? And so I was like, Okay, I wasn’t really sure that this was trauma informed enough for this class. But here we go. And it’s been one of the most beautiful classes that that I teach every week.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: it’s so. I’m so glad that at least the second time they dropped it in my lap, I said, Okay, let’s at least talk about it. Just kept coming up. I was like, oh, I think also, in the beginning they were a bit vague when they said recovery!

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Nyk Danu Yoga: It was like, What does that mean? You know? Like III assume substance recovery. But then it, you know, and we have a multitude of different mental health things that they’re dealing with. And so it’s been a challenge that

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Nyk Danu Yoga: that I only felt ready to start to take on because I had done the training with you, and because I had had those couple of years

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Nyk Danu Yoga: afterwards to really kind of start to put these things into play in my classes, so that they were just automatic, like, I no longer had to think about

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Nyk Danu Yoga: saying when I was getting off the mat, or

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know, they just became part of how I taught all my classes, and so it was so much easier to say, Okay, I can take on this next level of challenge, because I’ve kind of got this foundation. Now, yeah, yeah.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): beautiful. Yeah. I mean, it’s it’s not everybody’s

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): cup of tea, you know. It’s not where everybody wants to find themselves as a teacher. But I think that there’s a lot of therapeutic benefit, and if it’s the kind of teaching that you enjoy

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): it can be incredibly fulfilling, and it can really expand.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): You know you as a human being and as a teacher, to be a service

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Nyk Danu Yoga: in that way, and I think at a point for me, because I had been, I mean, I’d been teaching. It’s almost 20 years now. Good grief.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I need to keep expanding and challenging myself as a teacher, so that things don’t get kind of wrote and automatic, and

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Nyk Danu Yoga: you know, and and and I would get bored frankly if if everything stayed the same. Yeah.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So you recently finished

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Nyk Danu Yoga: your degree in counseling.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Yes, I did. Yeah. Just coming out of a 3 year program. And

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): seen clients have been seen clients since April.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: So now you get to combine those together in which is so beautiful that you can.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: you know, offer yoga therapy and talk therapy together. I just think

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Nyk Danu Yoga: like what a match made in

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): heaven. Really?

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Yeah, yeah, it’s been. It’s been very rich, I mean, I feel like I’m still very much in the inquiry of of where those 2 intersect and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): But that’s okay. You know I can be curious about that, and and keep exploring that with my clients and

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): finding a combination that works for them.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): it’ll evolve. Yeah. yeah, I think so.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Well, I’m looking at the time. And I’m thinking maybe we might want to slowly begin to wrap this up. I’ll I have a few little questions that I like to ask at the end of a, podcast some are light. Some are more soulful.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: First one is coffee or tea.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): one very strong cup of coffee in the morning.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): no messing around

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): tea after that, to avoid anxiety. I am with you on that one. Yes.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): coffee at select times for specific purposes. Yes, yes.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: favorite ice cream flavor.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: whether it’s vegan or not. Oh, yum.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: one thing. People often get wrong about me.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): One thing people often get wrong about me.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Yeah, like an assumption that you hear people say sometimes. Oh, I never would have realized that you were.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): They probably overestimate my confidence, my self confidence. How’s that?

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Nyk Danu Yoga: I could see that? Actually, yeah, you are you. Do you do come off that very confident. So

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Nyk Danu Yoga: a pop culture, vice

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): people, magazine

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): celebrity section.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Oh, my goodness, hilarious! I love this question because you really like

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Nyk Danu Yoga: they’re they’re always so surprising. Like, always. finish this sentence when I’m not practicing. Yoga, I am

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): hanging out with my partner.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): not relaxing. Yeah.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Yeah.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: One weird fact about you

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Nyk Danu Yoga: other than people. Magazine.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): 90 day fiance.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Oh, okay, that will do

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Nyk Danu Yoga: one thing. I wish people knew about yoga.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): something about accessibility.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): you know. II think that there’s a lot of ways that yoga sort of put forward in settler culture that makes it look not particularly appealing or accessible.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): And I’d like people to know that. You know, there are various places where one can land and find community and safer embodiment. And

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): yeah, yeah.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I think that’s the big next shift that has to happen in Yoga for sure. It’s starting too slowly.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Of course, I’m gonna put the links to all your things in the show notes. And you do still offer

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Nyk Danu Yoga: trauma trainings for teachers.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Yeah, I have one coming up at Anya Yoga in Victoria, and early January 2024. This might not go out before that one, but I’ll put the link there so that they can check out the next round, and also to your website. And all the things teach those regularly. And then I have another one coming up in Vancouver in February with whole body paradigm

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Nyk Danu Yoga: is that in person or online, or both, it’s a hybrid. Okay? So people could join that one great well, yeah, it’s maybe Friday night is online. And then the weekend is in person. I mean hybrid that way. Okay, gotcha gotcha.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: And then the last question is, I guess. Is there anything else that I forgot to ask you

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): that you feel is missing, that you’d like to add.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): I can’t think of anything. Okay, no. I really appreciated the conversation. I did, too. I really think.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: this is going to be helpful

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Nyk Danu Yoga: for a lot of teachers out there that are like, wait, trauma! What? Huh? It’s a good. It’s a good toe dip, and II truly believe anybody even like you said, even if you don’t want to specialize in certain populations. Every teacher should have at least a basic

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Nyk Danu Yoga: trauma training to just be able to

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Nyk Danu Yoga: adjust a few things, and also so that

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Nyk Danu Yoga: as a teacher, you have the confidence. if things come up that are confusing to you to be like, oh.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: this might be what this is.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Yeah, yeah, I think these trainings provide people both with a lot of professional insight and some personal insight.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): as I experienced as well, and and so they can be very rich in both domains.

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Nyk Danu Yoga: Well, Nicole will say our proper good byes as soon as I stop recording, but thank you so much for your time. I really appreciate it. This is gonna be, I know, a a very well listened to episode.

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Nicole Marcia (she/her): Well, it’s been a real honor and a pleasure. So thank you for having me. Thank you.

 

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